What is Collaborative Law?

Collaborative Law is a process in which a divorcing couple, together with trained professionals, work as a team to resolve disputes respectfully, without going to court. It is an honest exchange of information by both spouses, taking into account the highest priorities of each individual and their children. This practice aims to help individuals make fair, rational and wise decisions rather than acting on their fears and impulses in a difficult time.

How does it work?

• By establishing a respectful and safe environment for difficult conversations;
• By considering each person’s needs and input in a series of four-way meetings;
• By using and developing the information necessary to make good decisions with the help of specialists;
• By using a creative approach to reaching a mutually acceptable agreement.

What are ‘four-way meetings’?

Although all cases and clients differ, the goal beyond collaborative law is to provide a way in which individuals, with the guidance of attorneys, can best arrive at a mutual agreement in a timely, cost-efficient and respectful manner. The ‘four-way meetings’ are discussions among the parties and their participating collaborative attorneys.

How is Collaborative Law different from the traditional process?

The difference between these two approaches to resolving family dissolution cases extends beyond simply avoiding going to court. The basis of the collaborative process is honest communication, open disclosure of information, and fair agreements, rather than each party seeking and advantage over the other. The parties work together with their attorneys to understand the legal proceedings and implications so that they are able to take primary responsibility for any legal action, as opposed to an unrelated third party. The collaborative model presents parties the opportunity to find common ground using creative solutions to make arrangements and solve their differences.